Alexis Butler- I agree, it is very easy to take things for granted. I often find my self not appreciating things as much as I should. I am glad that everything turned out okay. I cannot imagine going through that.
Tiffany Fulcher- Family is a special thing. I agree that we should value them. I am sorry that you have gone through that.
Makayla Norvell- I agree entirely with your point of view. Money does not make you happy. We are not the most wealthy family either, but we are happy and have a great homelife.
Monday, March 30, 2020
Tuesday, March 24, 2020
Grace Powell Post and Comments
Throughout my years of life, I’ve struggled. I haven’t always been the prettiest, the nicest, the funniest, or even the smartest person in the room. That’s perfectly okay though, sometimes you don’t have to be the best of the best. I personally thank Riverside High School for teaching me that.
I have had most things handed to me throughout my life.
I have been taught to work and learn, but I’ve never been forced to do these things. I have two very great parents, and they struggle, I’ve seen it first hand and I know they aren’t the only ones.
Currently, my papa is dying. He’s planning his funeral and writing down everything he wants to take place in the ongoing situation. He’s going through things and giving all his grandchildren things to remember him by. He’s giving me his pistol, and while that may not seem much to anyone else. I will forever be grateful for that pistol, because he chose me to take care of it for him. Even when he’s struggling for the next breath, he is thinking of us.
We all struggle sometimes, and it’s very natural. Some things are harder to some, and easy for others. I believe that God never gives you something you can’t handle. Sure, he might throw a curveball your way and you may think your world is falling apart, but he knows you’re capable of overcoming it. You struggle, and that’s okay, take it as a challenge and beat it.
Three Comments:
Lexi Hall- I couldn’t agree more with what you said. My parent’s stepped out of their comfort zone a few years back and changed our family forever. My parent’s used to be very stuck up, lazy(when not at work), never wanted to try new things or go places. However that all changed and it has taught me to adventure, and experience. You only get this life once, live it with all you got.
Kaitlyn Reed- I agree with what you said. I think putting yourself out there is what everyone should do. I hate when people are like “why do you like her so much, she doesn’t seem that fun.” but that’s only from their point of view. You don’t always see a part of a person as someone else does.
Brittany Fulcher- I couldn’t agree more. I believe in second chances too, I believe that everyone has good in their heart. I wish that were true, but sometimes it’s not and that’s okay. You have to be yourself, and if that means leaving others behind for your happiness, so be it. You can’t live your life to please others, don’t hold back any anger, just let it go and be you!
I have been taught to work and learn, but I’ve never been forced to do these things. I have two very great parents, and they struggle, I’ve seen it first hand and I know they aren’t the only ones.
Currently, my papa is dying. He’s planning his funeral and writing down everything he wants to take place in the ongoing situation. He’s going through things and giving all his grandchildren things to remember him by. He’s giving me his pistol, and while that may not seem much to anyone else. I will forever be grateful for that pistol, because he chose me to take care of it for him. Even when he’s struggling for the next breath, he is thinking of us.
We all struggle sometimes, and it’s very natural. Some things are harder to some, and easy for others. I believe that God never gives you something you can’t handle. Sure, he might throw a curveball your way and you may think your world is falling apart, but he knows you’re capable of overcoming it. You struggle, and that’s okay, take it as a challenge and beat it.
Three Comments:
Lexi Hall- I couldn’t agree more with what you said. My parent’s stepped out of their comfort zone a few years back and changed our family forever. My parent’s used to be very stuck up, lazy(when not at work), never wanted to try new things or go places. However that all changed and it has taught me to adventure, and experience. You only get this life once, live it with all you got.
Kaitlyn Reed- I agree with what you said. I think putting yourself out there is what everyone should do. I hate when people are like “why do you like her so much, she doesn’t seem that fun.” but that’s only from their point of view. You don’t always see a part of a person as someone else does.
Brittany Fulcher- I couldn’t agree more. I believe in second chances too, I believe that everyone has good in their heart. I wish that were true, but sometimes it’s not and that’s okay. You have to be yourself, and if that means leaving others behind for your happiness, so be it. You can’t live your life to please others, don’t hold back any anger, just let it go and be you!
This I Believe - Carmen Campbell
Its not every day you miss half a school year. But this isn't just any school year. This was our senior year, the year we was supposed to make so many unforgettable memories, make amends with broken friendships before parting ways in the real world, and being apart of more than just a class. I've cried several times just thinking about not being able to do just those things, but I realized that in a world full of hate and chaos maybe this is what we need. Time. Time to realize that God didn't put use in this world to be selfish. He put us here to spread His word; and now is the time to do so. Weather I get to mend those broken friendships, make more memories, or be apart of such a special class, I'll always carry the Lord with me. One bible verse that always stick with me and hopefully will lighten the hearts of some of my fellow seniors is Joshua 1:9 "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go."
Saturday, March 21, 2020
A Message from Mrs. Larkin
I believe you all are one of the most talented, spirited, and loving bunch of students I've had the pleasure of teaching.
We've all been together for three years now, and it's been an awesome ride. You have challenged me as a teacher, a parent, and an adult, but I'm better for it. Thank you.
This assignment was to be your last before the MSA. I wanted you to write it in class and think very hard about your personal beliefs before going out into the real, adult world. It's so important to have a firm foundation of core beliefs at your age.
You're writing this from home, which, I think, turned out to be a blessing. Maybe this week has helped you slow down and ponder what's important and learn what your classmates have to share as well. I have read every post and comment so far, and I am so proud to know every one of you. You've got such great thoughts and ideas and you show wonderful support for each other with your comments. This has been my favorite assignment so far. I will make this essay the last assignment for seniors every year from now on.
Keep your classmates and teachers in your thoughts and prayers. Maybe we will get one more of everything before you graduate, but if we don't, you'll be just fine. I believe it.
We've all been together for three years now, and it's been an awesome ride. You have challenged me as a teacher, a parent, and an adult, but I'm better for it. Thank you.
This assignment was to be your last before the MSA. I wanted you to write it in class and think very hard about your personal beliefs before going out into the real, adult world. It's so important to have a firm foundation of core beliefs at your age.
You're writing this from home, which, I think, turned out to be a blessing. Maybe this week has helped you slow down and ponder what's important and learn what your classmates have to share as well. I have read every post and comment so far, and I am so proud to know every one of you. You've got such great thoughts and ideas and you show wonderful support for each other with your comments. This has been my favorite assignment so far. I will make this essay the last assignment for seniors every year from now on.
Keep your classmates and teachers in your thoughts and prayers. Maybe we will get one more of everything before you graduate, but if we don't, you'll be just fine. I believe it.
This I Believe--Lexi Hall
Our everyday life can become a routine if we allow it. Every day, we tend to go through the motions. We get up, get ready, leave for school or work, come back home, and repeat the process the next day. Something that I have realized is the need to add new things to my life. It is easy to become complacent when we are not trying new things. Old gets boring quickly and no one wants their life to become stagnant. This is why I find it important to try something I have never done before as often as possible.
During this week out of school it has been hard to remain at home as much as possible because I would rather be hanging out with friends or going on road trips to places I have never been before. I enjoy traveling to new places and trying new things. Hiking is something I have never done much of in the past, but this year I have realized it is something that I enjoy doing. I have tried to make it something I do now as often as I can. Not only does hiking give me exercise, but it gives me a change of scenery. I get to see the beauty of waterfalls, mountains, sunsets, and everything else in nature. It also allows me to travel to new places, which opens the door for me to seek new adventures. If I would have never tried something new I would have never found the love for hiking that I have grown to have.
Trying out new things is fun and it keeps life interesting. Life is too precious to not make the most of what we have of it. We need to get up and do something that we have never done before. Go on that hike, buy that plane ticket, train for a 5k, attend a major league baseball game, or whatever it may look like for your life. Not only will it bring joy to your day, but it will also create memories that you will never forget.
During this week out of school it has been hard to remain at home as much as possible because I would rather be hanging out with friends or going on road trips to places I have never been before. I enjoy traveling to new places and trying new things. Hiking is something I have never done much of in the past, but this year I have realized it is something that I enjoy doing. I have tried to make it something I do now as often as I can. Not only does hiking give me exercise, but it gives me a change of scenery. I get to see the beauty of waterfalls, mountains, sunsets, and everything else in nature. It also allows me to travel to new places, which opens the door for me to seek new adventures. If I would have never tried something new I would have never found the love for hiking that I have grown to have.
Trying out new things is fun and it keeps life interesting. Life is too precious to not make the most of what we have of it. We need to get up and do something that we have never done before. Go on that hike, buy that plane ticket, train for a 5k, attend a major league baseball game, or whatever it may look like for your life. Not only will it bring joy to your day, but it will also create memories that you will never forget.
Makayla's comments
Reply to Eli:
I agree with you wholeheartedly. The senior class needs determination right now, we are in a tough time and need a reminder that we have a reason to keep going, were so close to the end and can’t give it up now. Even though we are struggling now, it will all turn out well in the end.
Reply to Briley: Everyone has struggles in their life, and I believe fear is a key part of growing up. We find things that could change how we are living now and it scares us, but it’s healthy to face change. Life IS short and instead of letting fear stop you, let it push you forward. Its a healthy life lesson we all need to learn.
Reply to Lexi B: I really feel like we can all relate to this. We all get frustrated with our parents sometimes and can be so awful sometimes. I worry that I don’t tell my mother that I love her often enough, and I know she knows, but sometimes it’s better to hear it. I want to be more open but I never seem to find the right time. Maybe I should just make the time myself.
Reply to Briley: Everyone has struggles in their life, and I believe fear is a key part of growing up. We find things that could change how we are living now and it scares us, but it’s healthy to face change. Life IS short and instead of letting fear stop you, let it push you forward. Its a healthy life lesson we all need to learn.
Reply to Lexi B: I really feel like we can all relate to this. We all get frustrated with our parents sometimes and can be so awful sometimes. I worry that I don’t tell my mother that I love her often enough, and I know she knows, but sometimes it’s better to hear it. I want to be more open but I never seem to find the right time. Maybe I should just make the time myself.
This I Believe Makayla Norvell
When you’re young you have no concept of finances or simple things like money. All you know is the small world around you, your toys and your home. As you get older your world changes though, you are pushed into school and see that not everyone lives like you. Someone has nicer shoes, new toys, a big house, and you find yourself asking your parents for things that they cannot provide. In this modern-day material, things seem like they show what your quality of life, so if you are poor, surely you must be suffering. This isn’t true.
I was born in raised in a poor household, and while we aren’t always up to date on brand new tech and clothes, we were content and happy with what we had. Moving into school we didn’t really see any change since most children are dressed like gremlins anyway, but middle school was where I started noticing the change. It never changed how I felt about life but I was more concerned that I appeared that My life was bad. But as I finish school I realized that being poor does NOT mean that I’m depressed or that my life is bad. It taught me that happiness comes from experience and not from items. Some people see items as being a representation of happiness, love, or friendship; and I feel bad for these people, who cant look past the price tag. You don’t need money to be happy. And I’m better off having lived most of my life not being focused on it.
I was born in raised in a poor household, and while we aren’t always up to date on brand new tech and clothes, we were content and happy with what we had. Moving into school we didn’t really see any change since most children are dressed like gremlins anyway, but middle school was where I started noticing the change. It never changed how I felt about life but I was more concerned that I appeared that My life was bad. But as I finish school I realized that being poor does NOT mean that I’m depressed or that my life is bad. It taught me that happiness comes from experience and not from items. Some people see items as being a representation of happiness, love, or friendship; and I feel bad for these people, who cant look past the price tag. You don’t need money to be happy. And I’m better off having lived most of my life not being focused on it.
Friday, March 20, 2020
This I Believe - Kaitlyn Reed
Life is Short
The average person lives to be 79 years old, so that means my senior class is 61-62 years away from passing away. That being said, I can safely say I do not know most of you guys' middle names or even birthdays and I probably never will. This kind of bothers me because I can't imagine myself going out and making new friends outside of our class or school but I know I will have to soon because I won't be seeing or speaking to most of you real soon. I believe that we need to start putting ourselves out there more.
This past summer I attended a medical camp at ASU for a week. Before I even got there I had a mental break down in the parking garage because the directs were wrong and I couldn't find the entrance to the camp. When I finally got into the camp and settled in, I found out my roommate didn't show up (thank god). We did a few activities and I didn't really talk then we went to supper. I got my food and sat down by myself, not long after my counselors sat by me and it hit me, I was that camper. The camper that the camp counselors felt bad for. It was so embarrassing I thought I would pass away. But then my savior came in the form of a teenage girl named Alexia. She had recognized the shirt I was wearing (a Riverside shirt) and asked if I knew Zeke Hill. I told her yeah and we talked a bit, I soon found out she was my suitemate along with a girl named Macy.
Many, many months later as I was snapchatting Macy to wish her a happy birthday, I realized that if it had not been for Alexia knowing Zeke, I probably would not have talked to her or Macy or any of the other people I did. Due to me not putting myself out there, I almost did not get meet girls that soon became good friends of mine. I believe that people should always put themselves out there so that they do not miss out on experiences.
The average person lives to be 79 years old, so that means my senior class is 61-62 years away from passing away. That being said, I can safely say I do not know most of you guys' middle names or even birthdays and I probably never will. This kind of bothers me because I can't imagine myself going out and making new friends outside of our class or school but I know I will have to soon because I won't be seeing or speaking to most of you real soon. I believe that we need to start putting ourselves out there more.
This past summer I attended a medical camp at ASU for a week. Before I even got there I had a mental break down in the parking garage because the directs were wrong and I couldn't find the entrance to the camp. When I finally got into the camp and settled in, I found out my roommate didn't show up (thank god). We did a few activities and I didn't really talk then we went to supper. I got my food and sat down by myself, not long after my counselors sat by me and it hit me, I was that camper. The camper that the camp counselors felt bad for. It was so embarrassing I thought I would pass away. But then my savior came in the form of a teenage girl named Alexia. She had recognized the shirt I was wearing (a Riverside shirt) and asked if I knew Zeke Hill. I told her yeah and we talked a bit, I soon found out she was my suitemate along with a girl named Macy.
Many, many months later as I was snapchatting Macy to wish her a happy birthday, I realized that if it had not been for Alexia knowing Zeke, I probably would not have talked to her or Macy or any of the other people I did. Due to me not putting myself out there, I almost did not get meet girls that soon became good friends of mine. I believe that people should always put themselves out there so that they do not miss out on experiences.
This I Believe - Autumn Courtney
I believe in many things, but there is one thing that I do not believe in and this fear. Fear is defined as, “an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat.” However, we were not born with a sense of fear. It was created inside of us and as we get older, it grows stronger.
As we have all been struggling this week with the fear of losing our senior year, senior season, senior prom, graduation. I say that we need to push that to the side. Do not let fear win! We are the people, we get the say. There is no reason to fear!
I know that this is a hard time for everyone, and it is okay to worry. However, I am choosing to do something positive in this time of quarantine. I am spending time reading my bible, spending way too much time with my family, cleaning, doing my dreaded AMI assignments, making tik toks, cooking (which I am terrible at), face timing old and new friends, and doing things that I love but never really get the chance to do. I hate to say it, but I think this is something that the world needed, a time to slow things down and rest.
I want you all to know that I love each and everyone of, and that I am praying for you. Praying for your future, our last moments of high school together, and that all of you are staying safe, not bored, and washing your hands!:)
Ally Pendergrass Comments
Comments:
Briley Douglas - I agree with what you said here. This has always been something that I have struggled with. These past couple of years I have been trying to get more out of my comfort zone and do what I want to do, not what others want me to do. We all have a part of us that wants to please others but we shouldn’t allow that to dictate our lives. We should do what we want to do and not be ashamed of who we are.
Hailey Carr - I couldn’t agree more with you. We are often too worried about what we’ve done or what will happen to just enjoy life at the moment. We need to have fun and live in the moment. It’s okay to make mistakes as long as we learn from them and move on. We need to learn to love what we have now and make the most out of it.
Melanie Cheesman - I also believe that traveling can change someone's life. I have also been fortunate enough to go places and experience things I never thought I would’ve experienced. Traveling can open your eyes to so many things, like how cultures around the world are so different from each other. Traveling is something that everyone should do if they ever receive the opportunity.
Briley Douglas - I agree with what you said here. This has always been something that I have struggled with. These past couple of years I have been trying to get more out of my comfort zone and do what I want to do, not what others want me to do. We all have a part of us that wants to please others but we shouldn’t allow that to dictate our lives. We should do what we want to do and not be ashamed of who we are.
Hailey Carr - I couldn’t agree more with you. We are often too worried about what we’ve done or what will happen to just enjoy life at the moment. We need to have fun and live in the moment. It’s okay to make mistakes as long as we learn from them and move on. We need to learn to love what we have now and make the most out of it.
Melanie Cheesman - I also believe that traveling can change someone's life. I have also been fortunate enough to go places and experience things I never thought I would’ve experienced. Traveling can open your eyes to so many things, like how cultures around the world are so different from each other. Traveling is something that everyone should do if they ever receive the opportunity.
This I Believe-- Teressa Boatman
I believe in many things and have strong feelings towards these things. One of the many things I believe in is love, at any age. I believe no matter your age, everyone is capable of loving and feeling love. Love is a feeling that all people can experience.
Some might think, “she's five she doesn’t know what love is” but this child loves her caregiver, she relies on them for so many things and whether or not it is noticed, the child is grateful for it. There are different types of love, though. Loving someone intimately and loving someone for their heart. To make things a bit clearer, loving someone intimately is when you are in a relationship and feel a love for them, definitely not the same as saying that you love your mom or dad. Loving a mom or dad is like showing your feelings of safety, security, and happiness all combined. Even to make things a bit clearer, being in love is different than loving someone, but everyone, no matter the age can feel the sensation of love.
Many didn’t believe it at first, but when I was only 17 I fell deeply in love with my boyfriend. Everyone said, “you’re too young to know what love is” but that couldn’t be any more wrong. I have such a strong feeling of love towards my boyfriend, I know what love is, I’ve felt it for the first time when I engaged in a serious relationship with him. If I were to be 15, I’d still love this man with all my heart because I now know what love is.
Love cannot be determined by an age. A small child loves their mother, as their mother loves them. You cannot tell that child that they don’t love their parents, because children learn to love at a very young age. Loving is an important part of life. All people, no matter their age, are capable of feeling love and giving love!
this i believe- denton blair
Throughout life you will be taught many different lessons and aspects. Respect is one that will come often than others. Respect is something that is found in many different ways. It can be learned, earned, or given.From a young age your parents teach you to respect them as they respect you and other people. By showing politeness and doing the right thing. As you get older you learn that respect can be earned by courage and honor. Like the flag and our military. You also learn that respect doesn't have to be given at all to those who don't earn it. Have to show it to receive.Respect can go a long way with people.Its one of the best qualities to have. Now that we are all seniors and are about to get out on our own, respect will be something given that we've all learned and work to earn for the past 18 years. Just have to keep it now.
This I Believe- Katie Towery
Being True To You
Throughout times in our life, we realize there are certain things that make us who we are. These unique things like personality quirks, things we like that others don’t, or maybe things about ourselves we keep hidden from the rest of the world because we think it’s embarrassing. But no matter what these things are, they are true to you, so you should never be afraid to show that part of yourself to the world.
Growing up, I was probably seen as a little odd. I was shy, and it took a lot of courage to talk to people I wasn’t comfortable with. I would have rather stuck my nose in a book instead of talking to the people around me. I tried to follow the social norms around me, but let’s be honest, what even is considered normal anymore? I like Anime and K-Pop, and while I would have been absolutely mortified to have admitted that when I was younger, now I’ve realized that’s just a part of who I am. And it took courage to admit that, to be true to myself and who I wanted to become.
I’ve played softball since I was little. It felt like my entire life revolved around it, but I gradually lost interest in the sport. If I had been stronger and had more self-confidence, I would have told my father a long time ago that I didn’t want to play seriously anymore. Sure, I still liked to play, but I hated the seriousness that clouded the sport I had enjoyed. Making a mistake felt like you would be sent to the death penalty. Instead, I let it go on for years, never really enjoying the sport I had loved and missing out on so much because of playing every weekend practically all year round. Recently, I finally gained the courage to explain to my dad that I no longer wanted to play college ball. I was always too scared to say anything because it felt like I would break my dad’s heart, but in holding myself back, I realized I wasn’t being true to myself.
Throughout times in our life, we realize there are certain things that make us who we are. These unique things like personality quirks, things we like that others don’t, or maybe things about ourselves we keep hidden from the rest of the world because we think it’s embarrassing. But no matter what these things are, they are true to you, so you should never be afraid to show that part of yourself to the world.
Growing up, I was probably seen as a little odd. I was shy, and it took a lot of courage to talk to people I wasn’t comfortable with. I would have rather stuck my nose in a book instead of talking to the people around me. I tried to follow the social norms around me, but let’s be honest, what even is considered normal anymore? I like Anime and K-Pop, and while I would have been absolutely mortified to have admitted that when I was younger, now I’ve realized that’s just a part of who I am. And it took courage to admit that, to be true to myself and who I wanted to become.
I’ve played softball since I was little. It felt like my entire life revolved around it, but I gradually lost interest in the sport. If I had been stronger and had more self-confidence, I would have told my father a long time ago that I didn’t want to play seriously anymore. Sure, I still liked to play, but I hated the seriousness that clouded the sport I had enjoyed. Making a mistake felt like you would be sent to the death penalty. Instead, I let it go on for years, never really enjoying the sport I had loved and missing out on so much because of playing every weekend practically all year round. Recently, I finally gained the courage to explain to my dad that I no longer wanted to play college ball. I was always too scared to say anything because it felt like I would break my dad’s heart, but in holding myself back, I realized I wasn’t being true to myself.
Learning to be true to yourself is a hard lesson, but it is one I believe everyone should go through. Without it, and without my friends and my mom that helped me break the shell I kept around me, I never would have been comfortable in my own skin or strong enough to start being who I want to be. So, this is what I believe: being true to yourself gives you the self-confidence to be who you want to be and doesn’t let anyone hold you back or tell you otherwise. Don’t ever be afraid to be who you are.
Ally Pendergrass
All throughout my childhood and continuing today I have had a very close relationship with my family. I am very fortunate to have a family who I know cares about me and will always support me. Sure we have had our ups and downs, but that doesn’t stop us from getting together almost once every week. I believe others should be grateful for what family they have. I also believe it is very important to have at least some form of relationship with family. From what I have been taught growing up, being close with family is vital. If I didn’t have a relationship with my family, I don’t know what I would do. I definitely think that I wouldn’t be near as happy or the person I am today. Family is a very necessary connection. They are like a support system. They can build you up or break you down, but in the end they are always there. Even the family that breaks you down has shaped you in some way. I believe one should always be grateful for the family they have because it’s never known when they could be gone. With my personal experience, certain family members have become like my best friends. We have a bond that I know will last a lifetime, even if things get a little rocky. This is how family should be. I understand that not everyone has a great relationship with their family, but take a second and look at everything they’ve done and be thankful. There will be fights, but don’t turn them away and not try to get through it. Reflect on all the memories made and things they’ve done before making that big of a decision. Always have families back and they should always have yours.
Heavyn Hadl (post and comments at the end)
This I Believe Essay --
Heavyn Hadl Forgiveness is a word that everyone is familiar with. We hear it sometimes daily and are told that we should have this in our hearts. But it is often that we don't always do it. Well, at least I don't. My mom and dad have taught me forgiveness and it has been tattooed in my brain since day one. I've always understood that I must always forgive those who hurt me and have even encouraged it to others. ¨It's hard to forgive, but we must do it, not only for others, but for ourselves as well¨. But I had never really had an incident happen to me before that I had to use that forgiveness. And after that point, I had realized how difficult it was to forgive. A very important person to me fell back on their word, causing me to fall and get hurt. It was so bad that I went to all lengths to ignore this person because of the betrayal that invaded my heart. The pain and anger were real, and it was eating me up. But, I couldn't talk myself into forgiving this person. I didn't realize how much that keeping that grudge was hurting me. It was hurting me more than the person who did me wrong. One Sunday morning, I went to church with no intention of forgiving, still. However, I sat through the sermon and listened to every word my preacher spoke. It felt as if he was speaking straight to me. Do you know what the sermon was about? You'll never guess. Forgiveness. I took every word to heart and found it in myself to forgive that person. After I forgave them, it was like weight was lifted off of my chest and shoulders. You don't realize how much it hurts you to hold on to pain. The relief of forgiveness is incredible. Always forgive, but that doesn't mean you have to forget.
Three comments:
Ashlynn Wright: I agree very much. I think we should keep a positive outlook on the terrible things that are going on right now. We should trust that the Lord has a plan and we should keep our faith and trust in him. We have to keep our heads up.
Tiffany Fulcher: I am so sorry that you have had to live with that pain. But, I agree with what you said. It is important to always love our parents and our loved ones. I don't know your dad, but I know he is one lucky man to have daughters like you and Brittany. Y´all are both amazing people and have made huge impacts on my life, and so many other people's lives, in ways neither of you will understand.
James Dean Barnett: I can relate to you. Both of my parents have always been there for me and have given me everything I could need or want. They are amazing parents and have supported me through everything. We are truly blessed to have parents like we have.
Heavyn Hadl Forgiveness is a word that everyone is familiar with. We hear it sometimes daily and are told that we should have this in our hearts. But it is often that we don't always do it. Well, at least I don't. My mom and dad have taught me forgiveness and it has been tattooed in my brain since day one. I've always understood that I must always forgive those who hurt me and have even encouraged it to others. ¨It's hard to forgive, but we must do it, not only for others, but for ourselves as well¨. But I had never really had an incident happen to me before that I had to use that forgiveness. And after that point, I had realized how difficult it was to forgive. A very important person to me fell back on their word, causing me to fall and get hurt. It was so bad that I went to all lengths to ignore this person because of the betrayal that invaded my heart. The pain and anger were real, and it was eating me up. But, I couldn't talk myself into forgiving this person. I didn't realize how much that keeping that grudge was hurting me. It was hurting me more than the person who did me wrong. One Sunday morning, I went to church with no intention of forgiving, still. However, I sat through the sermon and listened to every word my preacher spoke. It felt as if he was speaking straight to me. Do you know what the sermon was about? You'll never guess. Forgiveness. I took every word to heart and found it in myself to forgive that person. After I forgave them, it was like weight was lifted off of my chest and shoulders. You don't realize how much it hurts you to hold on to pain. The relief of forgiveness is incredible. Always forgive, but that doesn't mean you have to forget.
Three comments:
Ashlynn Wright: I agree very much. I think we should keep a positive outlook on the terrible things that are going on right now. We should trust that the Lord has a plan and we should keep our faith and trust in him. We have to keep our heads up.
Tiffany Fulcher: I am so sorry that you have had to live with that pain. But, I agree with what you said. It is important to always love our parents and our loved ones. I don't know your dad, but I know he is one lucky man to have daughters like you and Brittany. Y´all are both amazing people and have made huge impacts on my life, and so many other people's lives, in ways neither of you will understand.
James Dean Barnett: I can relate to you. Both of my parents have always been there for me and have given me everything I could need or want. They are amazing parents and have supported me through everything. We are truly blessed to have parents like we have.
This I Believe- Eli G
Determination
Throughout my life I've always felt like there are specific qualities you should have. The most important to me is determination. Determination is a huge aspect in anything you attempt to do in life. For me, determination has played a huge role in school, baseball, and even small things like getting my drivers license.
I feel as if everybody needs determination in order to survive in this crazy world. I can speak from experience. I played on my favorite baseball team ever, the Thunder, for a few years. We were a great team and went to the championship each year. The whole team had determination. We were bridesmaids for back to back years, but that lit a fire under us. We had even more determination to come back the next year and win the championship.
I also believe right now is a perfect time for determination. Us, the senior class, have to be the most determined we've ever been right now. What I feel like has been an overreaction to the coronavirus has caused our senior seasons in baseball and softball to basically be canceled. We have to be very determined to have at least one more day in class together and at least one more ballgame before we have to hang it up.
Throughout my life I've always felt like there are specific qualities you should have. The most important to me is determination. Determination is a huge aspect in anything you attempt to do in life. For me, determination has played a huge role in school, baseball, and even small things like getting my drivers license.
I feel as if everybody needs determination in order to survive in this crazy world. I can speak from experience. I played on my favorite baseball team ever, the Thunder, for a few years. We were a great team and went to the championship each year. The whole team had determination. We were bridesmaids for back to back years, but that lit a fire under us. We had even more determination to come back the next year and win the championship.
I also believe right now is a perfect time for determination. Us, the senior class, have to be the most determined we've ever been right now. What I feel like has been an overreaction to the coronavirus has caused our senior seasons in baseball and softball to basically be canceled. We have to be very determined to have at least one more day in class together and at least one more ballgame before we have to hang it up.
This I Believe - Grace Anne
Trust me when I say that I've seen my share of bad days, weeks, and months. With that being said this leads me to believe that tomorrow will be better than yesterday. I remember doing really bad on a test in the second grade. At the time I thought that my world was over and I was going to be a second-grade dropout. Now I'm about to graduate high school not only with my diploma but also with my associate's degree. I broke my ankle in the sixth grade and thought that I would never play basketball again. I was fortunate enough to go to the state tournament and even get to the finals. My mom was diagnosed with Leukemia, had to go through chemo, and stayed in the hospital for about a year. She's now in remission and at home.
Sure things today aren't great the coronavirus is spreading quick, there were those bushfires in Australia. These things are awful but imagine how great it'll be when there is a vaccine for the virus, and the fires have officially been contained. I don't know what tomorrow holds, but what if the cure for cancer is found, or you win the lottery.
Some days will be rough, sometimes it might even feel like the world is ending. However, there will be good things to follow. You also have to be hopeful for better days too. Seek the good in every situation, and enjoy the little wins. There will be days where believing that tomorrow will be better will pay off. Be optimistic for the future because great things are coming. So believe me when I say tomorrow will be better than yesterday.
Thursday, March 19, 2020
This I Believe - Briley Douglas
Throughout my teen years, fear has crippled me. I have been scared to try new things, scared to put myself out there, and scared to be my true self. When the opportunity would arise to step out of my comfort zone, the fear of being judged would stop me in my tracks and have me retreat back. I have always been jealous of those who live their life with no worry about what others may think. They do what makes them happy and they’re proud to be who they are. This should be a way of living for everyone. I believe that everyone should strive to get out of their comfort zone and live life to the fullest.
For years I was okay with staying in the safe limits of my comfort zone, but one day it changed. I didn’t have a life-changing event that made me reevaluate my life, I simply decided that I was tired of being discontent with my life and was in need of a change. People are so quick to complain about their life
and do nothing to fix it, and I wasn’t going to be one of those people. I made up my mind that I was going to surround myself with friends who truly made me happy, be who I want to be, and stop settling for less. I started to make small changes in my life. Instead of feeling like I had to be friends with everyone, I made my friend group smaller. I started to read more because I love to read but used to be scared of what others would think of me. Daily, I continue to try new things, become more confident in myself, and strive to live my life to the fullest because I know I’m not promised tomorrow.
Life’s too short to hold back out of fear. If you want to wear revealing outfits, then wear them and be proud. If you want to wear clothes that are two sizes too big, then wear them and be proud. Don’t let the words of others stop you from being yourself. Don’t be afraid to speak out about what you believe in out of fear of upsetting others. No matter what you say someone will disagree with you, so speak your mind and speak it loudly. You’re never promised tomorrow so stop safety netting your life and settling for lukewarm. We are only given a limited time on this Earth, so why not live a life we deserve.
For years I was okay with staying in the safe limits of my comfort zone, but one day it changed. I didn’t have a life-changing event that made me reevaluate my life, I simply decided that I was tired of being discontent with my life and was in need of a change. People are so quick to complain about their life
and do nothing to fix it, and I wasn’t going to be one of those people. I made up my mind that I was going to surround myself with friends who truly made me happy, be who I want to be, and stop settling for less. I started to make small changes in my life. Instead of feeling like I had to be friends with everyone, I made my friend group smaller. I started to read more because I love to read but used to be scared of what others would think of me. Daily, I continue to try new things, become more confident in myself, and strive to live my life to the fullest because I know I’m not promised tomorrow.
Life’s too short to hold back out of fear. If you want to wear revealing outfits, then wear them and be proud. If you want to wear clothes that are two sizes too big, then wear them and be proud. Don’t let the words of others stop you from being yourself. Don’t be afraid to speak out about what you believe in out of fear of upsetting others. No matter what you say someone will disagree with you, so speak your mind and speak it loudly. You’re never promised tomorrow so stop safety netting your life and settling for lukewarm. We are only given a limited time on this Earth, so why not live a life we deserve.
This I Belive-Gage Crews
Discipline is quite regularly found as the most important thing parents need to teach their children. There are many reason why this is. One reason it is important to have discipline is because it leads to knowing right from wrong, and good from bad. When a person knows what is right, but yet does the wrong thing it is known as being undisciplined. Being disciplined as a kid sets you up for the rest of your life.Personally, discipline is something that I strive to excel myself in everyday. I try to show up on time, no matter how hard it is. This includes getting up at 5:30AM for a baseball workout, or showing up to practice afterschool on time. Discipline can be found not only in sports, but also in schools all around. Kids can show discipline by showing up to class on time, but also using that class time wisely, learning but also not disturbing others. Discipline is not only important in children though, it is also important in adults. When adults stop showing up to work on time, they are often wrote up, or punished. Several accounts for this can cause a loss of a job. Discipline also comes into paying bills. An undisciplined adult will typically buy unnecessary stuff like expensive vehicles and big houses when they really can’t afford them. Throughout every aspect of life, discipline is important. It can lead to better students, learners, workers and parents. Discipline keeps you focused on your goals, and keeps you from giving up at every bump in the road. It can make a better society and a happier place to live.
This I Believe Essay - Zoe Meyer
Be Kind-
As we go through our lives, we face many challenges. Sometimes these challenges can alter our attitude to where we can be cruel towards others. But as we go through life, we need to remember that we are not the only one going through hard times. Other people have parents going through divorces. Other people suffer from debilitating illnesses. Other people go through losses of loved ones. Other people suffer through heartbreak, whether from a significant other or from broken friendships. Other people suffer, so remember that and be kind.
I remember a significant moment at the end of the last school year. I was going through a really hard time with my health, my parents, and my friend group. I just couldn't hold in my tears anymore. So I raised my hand and ran to the bathroom. I broke down in tears and was having a full-on meltdown in the high school bathroom. All of a sudden, a girl walked in and saw me crying. I was so embarrassed and was ready to call my mom to pick me up from school. No one but my mom has ever seen me cry like that before, let alone a girl I've never seen before in my life. Instead of brushing me off or leaving, she looked at me and asked me what was wrong. I don't remember exactly what I said, but instead of her saying she was sorry and wished she could help me, she just asked if she could give me a hug. I accepted, and I felt cared for. It might sound strange, a random stranger in the girls bathroom giving me a hug, but it was so warm. I'll never forget her and her kindness towards me. It's the simple acts of kindness like that. Being kind instead of having snotty attitudes and cold stares is the key to happiness. Not only if you're the one going through a tough time, if you help someone with their hard time it can also make you feel good.
As we go through our lives, we face many challenges. Sometimes these challenges can alter our attitude to where we can be cruel towards others. But as we go through life, we need to remember that we are not the only one going through hard times. Other people have parents going through divorces. Other people suffer from debilitating illnesses. Other people go through losses of loved ones. Other people suffer through heartbreak, whether from a significant other or from broken friendships. Other people suffer, so remember that and be kind.
I remember a significant moment at the end of the last school year. I was going through a really hard time with my health, my parents, and my friend group. I just couldn't hold in my tears anymore. So I raised my hand and ran to the bathroom. I broke down in tears and was having a full-on meltdown in the high school bathroom. All of a sudden, a girl walked in and saw me crying. I was so embarrassed and was ready to call my mom to pick me up from school. No one but my mom has ever seen me cry like that before, let alone a girl I've never seen before in my life. Instead of brushing me off or leaving, she looked at me and asked me what was wrong. I don't remember exactly what I said, but instead of her saying she was sorry and wished she could help me, she just asked if she could give me a hug. I accepted, and I felt cared for. It might sound strange, a random stranger in the girls bathroom giving me a hug, but it was so warm. I'll never forget her and her kindness towards me. It's the simple acts of kindness like that. Being kind instead of having snotty attitudes and cold stares is the key to happiness. Not only if you're the one going through a tough time, if you help someone with their hard time it can also make you feel good.
This I Believe--Ashlynn Wright
The Power of Being Positive
There are always points in your life that cause you to have a negative outlook. Whether it be a close relative passing away, you getting bad grades in school, or something isn’t going right in your life. Like all humans, I’ve had those points, but I believe that we should always try our best to be positive.
With all of the problems going on in the world, positivity is key. Social media has a big impact on teenagers. With teenagers constantly being on social media, they see the things happening with the newly discovered virus in the United States. The virus has caused a negative outlook on the world and people are starting to go crazy. To all of the seniors in high school, we may never attend a class in our school again. Our last prom may be cancelled, as well as, our graduation that we have worked hard for, for 13 long years. All of these things will more than likely cause us to have a negative outlook on what is to come in the future. I believe that we need to keep our positivity, and make the best of what we have.
There are always points in your life that cause you to have a negative outlook. Whether it be a close relative passing away, you getting bad grades in school, or something isn’t going right in your life. Like all humans, I’ve had those points, but I believe that we should always try our best to be positive.
With all of the problems going on in the world, positivity is key. Social media has a big impact on teenagers. With teenagers constantly being on social media, they see the things happening with the newly discovered virus in the United States. The virus has caused a negative outlook on the world and people are starting to go crazy. To all of the seniors in high school, we may never attend a class in our school again. Our last prom may be cancelled, as well as, our graduation that we have worked hard for, for 13 long years. All of these things will more than likely cause us to have a negative outlook on what is to come in the future. I believe that we need to keep our positivity, and make the best of what we have.
Wednesday, March 18, 2020
This I Believe -- Melanie Cheesman
The Power of Travel
We all know that traveling is my thing. I love adventures. I love seeing the different things and people that this world has to offer. In my almost 18 years of life, I have seen SO MANY places, things, ideas, and people. Growing up, my mom would ask my siblings and I to go on trips with her. She would ask us to go places like Washington DC to see the history or New York City only to see the 911 remembrance instead of going shopping or on Broadway. We always told her that it sounded boring and that we were not going. Little did we know that shopping and doing the "fun" stuff would not even compare to learning the history of a place. When I went on my trip overseas, I could not even tell you what I bought when I went shopping, but I could tell you hundreds of things that I learned there. I learned about some of the most powerful people from the past, saw the Crown Jewels that are worth millions of dollars, walked on some of the most beautiful landscape that I have ever seen. I learned about people that come from a completely different background than me. I met a family that relies on goats to get their necessities. One of our tour guides literally thought that Arkansas was pronounced "Ar-kansas." It was crazy to see how our "normal" is out of another person's comfort zone. We are used to coming home to an air conditioned home while places in Scotland (homes, restaurants, hotels, stores) rarely have air conditioners. We see homeless people on the side of the road with signs every once in a while, but they are one every corner in England. Most of us drink our beverages with ice while I did not see a single cube of ice my entire trip, even in the air ports. When I left for my trip, I was excited to ride in a plane, to shop in another country, and get out of Arkansas. I was traveling for all of the wrong reasons. My mom and I both agreed that after my trip, I came back a different person. I had a different view on life, and I saw things differently from before. Instead of going shopping on the weekends, I try to go and try something out of my comfort zone. All in all, I believe that traveling can change someone's life!
We all know that traveling is my thing. I love adventures. I love seeing the different things and people that this world has to offer. In my almost 18 years of life, I have seen SO MANY places, things, ideas, and people. Growing up, my mom would ask my siblings and I to go on trips with her. She would ask us to go places like Washington DC to see the history or New York City only to see the 911 remembrance instead of going shopping or on Broadway. We always told her that it sounded boring and that we were not going. Little did we know that shopping and doing the "fun" stuff would not even compare to learning the history of a place. When I went on my trip overseas, I could not even tell you what I bought when I went shopping, but I could tell you hundreds of things that I learned there. I learned about some of the most powerful people from the past, saw the Crown Jewels that are worth millions of dollars, walked on some of the most beautiful landscape that I have ever seen. I learned about people that come from a completely different background than me. I met a family that relies on goats to get their necessities. One of our tour guides literally thought that Arkansas was pronounced "Ar-kansas." It was crazy to see how our "normal" is out of another person's comfort zone. We are used to coming home to an air conditioned home while places in Scotland (homes, restaurants, hotels, stores) rarely have air conditioners. We see homeless people on the side of the road with signs every once in a while, but they are one every corner in England. Most of us drink our beverages with ice while I did not see a single cube of ice my entire trip, even in the air ports. When I left for my trip, I was excited to ride in a plane, to shop in another country, and get out of Arkansas. I was traveling for all of the wrong reasons. My mom and I both agreed that after my trip, I came back a different person. I had a different view on life, and I saw things differently from before. Instead of going shopping on the weekends, I try to go and try something out of my comfort zone. All in all, I believe that traveling can change someone's life!
This I Believe- James Barnett
Your parents are something special. They are the ones who will always be there for you. They are the ones who only want your happiness. At least that has always been the case for me. My parents have always supported me and wanted nothing but to help me accomplish my goals. However, I know that this not the case for every parent. I am saddened by this. There are many parents in this world that do not always support their children and are not there for them. I believe it is a parent's job to be their kids and not judge them when they get into trouble or make mistakes. For one, parents obviously have much more life experience than their children due to their age. They have most likely lived through the same situations and made the same mistakes as their kids.
A child with supportive parents is able to grow into a better person mature quicker. They have a support system and do not feel that as if they are alone. They can get through situations faster and develop coping mechanisms. I have not had the easiest life. I have had do deal with a lot of emotional issues. But, the thing that helped me get through it the most was the support of my parents. My parents never "babied" me, but were always there for me. This helped me get through these situations and how to deal with future problems. It is a parent's role to support their children and give them the advice to help them grow in to mature adults.
A child with supportive parents is able to grow into a better person mature quicker. They have a support system and do not feel that as if they are alone. They can get through situations faster and develop coping mechanisms. I have not had the easiest life. I have had do deal with a lot of emotional issues. But, the thing that helped me get through it the most was the support of my parents. My parents never "babied" me, but were always there for me. This helped me get through these situations and how to deal with future problems. It is a parent's role to support their children and give them the advice to help them grow in to mature adults.
This I Believe - Hailey Carr
Growing up, I remember always having huge gatherings at my family friends houses. We would always be outside playing some kind of sport. It could be baseball in the front yard, basketball in the street, or even water gun fights in the backyard. Those are some of my best memories from my child hood, and they have led me to believe in living in the moment.
Everyone has caught themselves not living in the moment whether it was think about their past too much or even planning too much of their future. Think about it. Most of us are seniors, which means we are thinking and stressing about our future. Some of us may have it all figured out, while others have no idea what they want to do. This is an important part of life, but don't let it keep you from experiencing your life now. Keep going out with friends and spending time with your family and be present with them. Don't think about your future and have a good time with them, because you will not be able to go back and relive it. Also, don't let your past keep you from living in the moment. All of us have made mistakes that we regret. Some of us may have a past that we hate, and never want anyone to find out, but you have to let it go. Those mistakes and bad memories are keeping you from being in the moment. Plus, reliving or thinking about those issues are not helping you. They are keeping you from making amazing memories with others. They are keeping you from experiencing happiness and some many other emotions. You have plenty of time to reflect on your past and plan your future another time, but when you are out with friends or family live in the moment.
Living in the moment is not easy, especially when you have an abundant amount of events or problems happening in your life. However, let those things go when you are with friends or your family. Worry about all those things later, and ensure that you are present and enjoying the time with your family. Allow yourself to be present in their conversations and enjoy their presence, because believe me they will not be around for ever. Eventually, all you will have to remember them will be the memories you made while living in the moment.
Everyone has caught themselves not living in the moment whether it was think about their past too much or even planning too much of their future. Think about it. Most of us are seniors, which means we are thinking and stressing about our future. Some of us may have it all figured out, while others have no idea what they want to do. This is an important part of life, but don't let it keep you from experiencing your life now. Keep going out with friends and spending time with your family and be present with them. Don't think about your future and have a good time with them, because you will not be able to go back and relive it. Also, don't let your past keep you from living in the moment. All of us have made mistakes that we regret. Some of us may have a past that we hate, and never want anyone to find out, but you have to let it go. Those mistakes and bad memories are keeping you from being in the moment. Plus, reliving or thinking about those issues are not helping you. They are keeping you from making amazing memories with others. They are keeping you from experiencing happiness and some many other emotions. You have plenty of time to reflect on your past and plan your future another time, but when you are out with friends or family live in the moment.
Living in the moment is not easy, especially when you have an abundant amount of events or problems happening in your life. However, let those things go when you are with friends or your family. Worry about all those things later, and ensure that you are present and enjoying the time with your family. Allow yourself to be present in their conversations and enjoy their presence, because believe me they will not be around for ever. Eventually, all you will have to remember them will be the memories you made while living in the moment.
Tuesday, March 17, 2020
This I Believe Essay - Brittany Fulcher
Second Chances
Everybody makes mistakes in their lives, whether they are huge ones or small ones.
Immediately people assume the worst, and second chances are not even considered. Sometimes, in a severe situation, not giving a second chance is understandable, but other times they should be.
For minor mistakes, second chances should always be considered.
I had this amazing friendship. This person made their way into my life and it was bittersweet. I made mistakes, several of them actually. All minor and some were not mistakes in my mind, it was just living my own life without being told how to do it. This person did not understand. They wanted me to be just like them, trying to be the best person over everyone. I could not always do that. Yet, I seemed to be the one working to make the friendship work and giving all the chances before I could not take it anymore. It got old fast. This person put me down for so many things I did, even my mistakes that could be forgiven. They acted like they could control my life.
Even with all the fights and periods of not speaking, I always worked to make things right again.
They seemed to be after that but never were. This person never even truly gave me my first second chance in the friendship. My mistakes were not awful, it was not listening to what they wanted me to do with my life and making my own choices even if they were not the best. I was accused of things
and treated like I just did not meet their personal standards.
Second chances should be considered in situations like my own. I worked so hard to make the
friendship work, I gave them second chances every time I was put down or treated like the things I wanted did not really matter. I dealt with this. Yet, even with all my attempts and love for this friend, I was never truly given my own second chance.
This I Believe Essay - Tiffany Fulcher
Growing up, I remember walking through stores or going to school events and seeing kids with both of their parents there with them. I would always wonder what it was like to have that because by the time I was ten years old, I couldn’t remember what it felt like to have both of my parents around me all the time because mine were separated after I turned six. If you’re lucky enough and your parents are together and you’re able to have them both around all the time, you should appreciate it because not everyone has that.
For the past eleven years, I have lived with my Mom while my Dad has lived in a town four hours away. The only time I get to see my Dad is during school breaks. When I first moved away, it was awful. I wanted to run to my Dad and be with him, but I couldn’t because he was so far away. It was terrible. For years, I have had to deal with only seeing my Dad on school breaks and maybe the occasional trip down there for the weekend. I have had to deal with my Dad not being able to come to school events, sport events, the few church plays I was in, and other things along those lines.
As time has passed, I have made sure to make the best of the time I get to spend with my Dad since it doesn’t seem to add up to a lot. He has missed so much in my life and I have missed so much time with him because we live so far apart. Some kids miss out on time with their parents so if you have both of your parents together, be thankful and appreciate that you have them there. You get to have time with both of them, but not everyone gets that.
I Believe Essay - Lotti Hoffman
I have always considered myself a firm believer. Whether it be in my relationship with God, love, hope, hard work, or effort. I am a firm believer. What that means is that when I do something, I do it to the fullest. When I say something, I mean it. The list could go on, however, you could be wondering what exactly I believe in, well, I believe in the little things.
The little things are what make friendships last, flowers grow, and food taste good. The little things are the glue to our lives, yet we take them for granted daily. Do you remember when you could have helped the girl in the hallway pick up her things when she dropped her bag? When you could have given the crying classmate a hug, but chose not to? When you could have done something little to change the outcome of someone else's day? Not only do we take for granted the little things other people do for us, but we tend to ignore the opportunity to help others. Many people don't see the significance in doing something for someone else; why help them when I don't get anything in return? You see, this mindset is the very thing that causes destruction in friendships, families, and your witness to others. Doing something small to brighten someone else's day is better than anything else you could do for yourself.
The next time you have an opportunity to open the door, give a smile, or be a friend, do it. You never know who's world you could change by giving a compliment. It isn't always easy to do the little things. We're human, we forget, have bad days, and make mistakes. But that is when the beauty of doing something small for someone happens. On your bad days, maybe someone will return the favor to you. The little things change the course of our lives, whether we recognize it or not. Something as small as forgetting to add baking soda to your cake recipe will cause the cake not to rise. Be the baking soda in someone else's life, help them rise. Be the little thing that changes their day, year, or even their life.
COMMENTS
Awesome post, Grace Anne! Life is very hard, and we all go through tough times, but having hope that things will get better is one of the best things you can do. Everyday has something bad in it, but it also has something good!
- Lotti
Briley, I loved reading your post. Sometimes we get so caught up in the wrong things that we forget that it's our life to live! I am glad I found this out at a young age, because it honestly is such a tough lesson to learn. I am super proud of you for your growth! It is a hard thing to do, but happiness is key!
Ashlynn, I totally agree with this! Having a positive outlook is the best thing someone can do. Something will go wrong everyday, but something will also go right. If we look at the negative, we will always be sad! It is so important to have that great life perspective. Good job!!
The little things are what make friendships last, flowers grow, and food taste good. The little things are the glue to our lives, yet we take them for granted daily. Do you remember when you could have helped the girl in the hallway pick up her things when she dropped her bag? When you could have given the crying classmate a hug, but chose not to? When you could have done something little to change the outcome of someone else's day? Not only do we take for granted the little things other people do for us, but we tend to ignore the opportunity to help others. Many people don't see the significance in doing something for someone else; why help them when I don't get anything in return? You see, this mindset is the very thing that causes destruction in friendships, families, and your witness to others. Doing something small to brighten someone else's day is better than anything else you could do for yourself.
The next time you have an opportunity to open the door, give a smile, or be a friend, do it. You never know who's world you could change by giving a compliment. It isn't always easy to do the little things. We're human, we forget, have bad days, and make mistakes. But that is when the beauty of doing something small for someone happens. On your bad days, maybe someone will return the favor to you. The little things change the course of our lives, whether we recognize it or not. Something as small as forgetting to add baking soda to your cake recipe will cause the cake not to rise. Be the baking soda in someone else's life, help them rise. Be the little thing that changes their day, year, or even their life.
COMMENTS
Awesome post, Grace Anne! Life is very hard, and we all go through tough times, but having hope that things will get better is one of the best things you can do. Everyday has something bad in it, but it also has something good!
- Lotti
Briley, I loved reading your post. Sometimes we get so caught up in the wrong things that we forget that it's our life to live! I am glad I found this out at a young age, because it honestly is such a tough lesson to learn. I am super proud of you for your growth! It is a hard thing to do, but happiness is key!
Ashlynn, I totally agree with this! Having a positive outlook is the best thing someone can do. Something will go wrong everyday, but something will also go right. If we look at the negative, we will always be sad! It is so important to have that great life perspective. Good job!!
Monday, March 16, 2020
This I Believe Essay - Alexis Butler
I am an indecisive person. In the mornings, I try on four outfits before I decide which one to wear. I change what I want to be when I grow up once a week. I even change my opinions on politics every election cycle. Throughout all the uncertainty in my life, there is one thing I remain sure of. You should always tell your parents how much you love them.
In August of this year, my dad went in for a relatively easy surgery. He was put under, but the surgery was only supposed to last an hour maximum. I vividly remember showing up to the hospital bright and early the morning of the 8th. When the nurse showed up to take him to surgery, I kept repeating that I loved him. I had an uneasy feeling, but he reassured me that everything would be okay. I sat in the waiting room for what seemed like an eternity. One by one, all of the people in the waiting room were called by the nurse to notify them their loved one was fine and they would be up soon. Soon, I was alone in the room. I finally got the call, but it wasn't the one I had hoped for. My dad had stopped breathing, and he was being transported to the ICU. The nurse gave me his room number, and I got to him as fast as I could.
When I saw him, my heart stopped. There was what seemed like a million wires on him, and he had a ventilator down his throat. He couldn't even open his eyes to look at me. To see my dad, my hero and first best friend, like this was overwhelming. As much as I wanted to be with him, I just couldn't. I sobbed all the way home and just prayed that he would be okay. I felt everything and nothing at the same time.
As time passed, his condition improved. Within a week, he was practically back to his usual self. I, however, never went back to my old self. I changed my selfish, ungrateful mindset. From that moment on, I have made it a point to tell my parents how much I love them. Every time I leave the house, I say "I love you" multiple times. I always say it before I go to sleep. Life is so precious; it can be taken away in the blink of an eye. I beg you to appreciate your parents. You won't have them forever.
In August of this year, my dad went in for a relatively easy surgery. He was put under, but the surgery was only supposed to last an hour maximum. I vividly remember showing up to the hospital bright and early the morning of the 8th. When the nurse showed up to take him to surgery, I kept repeating that I loved him. I had an uneasy feeling, but he reassured me that everything would be okay. I sat in the waiting room for what seemed like an eternity. One by one, all of the people in the waiting room were called by the nurse to notify them their loved one was fine and they would be up soon. Soon, I was alone in the room. I finally got the call, but it wasn't the one I had hoped for. My dad had stopped breathing, and he was being transported to the ICU. The nurse gave me his room number, and I got to him as fast as I could.
When I saw him, my heart stopped. There was what seemed like a million wires on him, and he had a ventilator down his throat. He couldn't even open his eyes to look at me. To see my dad, my hero and first best friend, like this was overwhelming. As much as I wanted to be with him, I just couldn't. I sobbed all the way home and just prayed that he would be okay. I felt everything and nothing at the same time.
As time passed, his condition improved. Within a week, he was practically back to his usual self. I, however, never went back to my old self. I changed my selfish, ungrateful mindset. From that moment on, I have made it a point to tell my parents how much I love them. Every time I leave the house, I say "I love you" multiple times. I always say it before I go to sleep. Life is so precious; it can be taken away in the blink of an eye. I beg you to appreciate your parents. You won't have them forever.
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