Monday, February 22, 2016

Show Your Girls Star Wars



 Show Your Girls Star Wars
Samantha Schreyer
Freshman Composition
Ms. Long
2/22/16


I stood in Hobby Lobby’s clearance aisle, taking in the retro metal signs and wall art, when a little girl came rushing passed me to her mother.  In her small hands, she held a metal sign with Jedi master Yoda on it, his famous quote “Do or do not, there is no try,” written below it.  “Mom, mom,” she said, “I want this for my room.”
            “No, put it back. That’s for a boy’s room,” the mother told her.  Then the little girl, no older than ten, walked by me and put the sign on an empty rack.  She looked defeated.  Still in elementary school, and told she can’t show her love for Star Wars because it’s for boys.  My skin visibly crawled. 
            I never had this problem growing up.  As the only little girl surrounded by stinky guys, I had mixed obsessions.  I had two brothers, mostly male cousins, and my best friend was a boy.  My action figures lived in the Barbie Dream House, and my dinosaurs pulled Cinderella’s carriage to the ball.  I was a certified tomboy.  Sure, I had an awesome T-shirt with velociraptors playing basketball on the front, but I also spent some time doing beauty pageants.  Star Wars, sadly, was not a part of my glitter-and-dirt childhood.  Looking back now, I wish it was.  I truly missed out on a quintessential American childhood.  Now I’m an aunt, with two nephews and a niece.  She isn’t even a year old, and she already has a Star Wars book in her nursery.  If she decides to explore that galaxy far, far away, will she be able to, or will she be shot down like Greedo in the Mos Eisley cantina?  It is for this reason, for the girl in Hobby Lobby, and the future of my niece, I say every parent should show their little girl Star Wars.
           “Little girls aren’t interested in stuff like that,” some may say, but I say that is a matter of causation.  A girl never introduced to something will never know if she enjoys it or not. 
            Jedi Master Yoda says, “Truly wonderful, the mind of a child is,” but what good is the mind of a child if it is forced into a pink box?  We should show our girls Star Wars because it breaks down the gender binary in children.  Star Wars is viewed as a boy’s subject, and it is our job to change that.  “This is for boys and that is for girls” damages our children.  When we as a society stop gendering childhood interests, and instead encourage cross-gendered hobbies, we are setting our next generation up for success.  When young children have similar interests, like Star Wars or superheroes, this breaks down that gendered wall and tells children that boys and girls are not so different after all, and therefore not enemies.  Ridding ourselves of the “girls are from Naboo and boys are from Tatooine” mindset opens our children up to far more friendship options. 
            Then there’s the story of little Katie Goldman, a girl who just wanted to fit in.  She wears glasses, hates her lazy eye, and loves Star Wars.  In late 2010, she found herself on the receiving end of bullying, all because she likes something “meant for boys”.  When she came home and wanted nothing to do with her favorite fandom, her mother pressed her until she started crying.  One blog post later, and Katie started representing young girls teased for liking boyish things.  Weird Al brought her to a concert,  multiple voice actors from The Clone Wars reached out to her, and the 501st Legion, an international organization of charitable stormtroopers, made her a custom, movie accurate, child-sized trooper costume, which she has now passed on to another bullied Star Wars fan (Gumbrecht).  If more girls enjoy Star Wars, then the sexist idea of a boy’s only club will eventually disappear, and girls like Katie won’t be alone.
            Star Wars also offers girls strong fictional role models.  When I look back at the shows I watched as a child, strong female characters were lacking, but as an older girl getting into Star Wars, I feel now what every boy has felt in their lives; man, I wanna be a Jedi!  I looked up to princesses when I was little, but Star Wars offers girls a different kind of princess.  Princess Leia Organa is more than just a princess.  She’s a freedom fighter standing up against a fascist government, as well as the leader of a galaxy-wide rebellion.  In the new series, she’s a general, and in the extended universe, she’s a Jedi.  In the prequel trilogy, there’s Padme Amidala, a government official and queen who holds her own against droids and George Lucas’s poor writing choices.  For girls who would rather watch the amazing cartoon The Clone Wars, Ahsoka Tano is a Padawan (Jedi in training), and is fourteen years-old.  She fights just like the boys, and even takes on General Grievous by herself in the first season.  Princesses are all well and good, but these ladies show that girls and women can carry the world in a male-dominated environment, and that everybody has the ability to change the world.  In the newest trilogy, the main character is Rey, a Force user from the desert planet Jakku.  She is the new Luke Skywalker, and has served as an inspiration to a new generation of Star Wars loving little girls (Karvelas).  For the girls who want to get in touch with their inner Dark Side, The Force Awakens also offers Captain Phasma, a mysterious villain who isn’t characterized by her gender, but rather her cool armor and intimidating personality.    
            Star Wars has been a part of every generation, and depriving young girls of such a deep history, and such a good story, is a shame.  It’s rare to see such an old series still hold true for modern children.  My father was my age when he first saw Star Wars, and now there’s a new brand of movies coming off the line, and a new generation of fans.  The Force Awakens is nominated for five Oscars, yet we still treat Star Wars as a boy’s toy (Star Wars: The Force Awakens Receives 5 Oscar Nominations).   Every generation has some sort of connection to Star Wars, and it’s important that we include the girls such as Katie and the girl from Hobby Lobby.  So I say, if you have a daughter, or a sister, a grandmother, a mother, or even if she’s your father’s brother’s nephew’s cousin’s former roommate, sit her down, and let her see if she likes it.  She won’t be disappointed.  
http://samragan.edu.glogster.com/show-your-girls-star-wars/
             

11 comments:

  1. This is amazing, Sam! I can't completely relate because I wasn't interested in star wars as a child, but I can say that star wars should not create gender separation. I think this occurs a lot in todays society... Just like little boys are not expected to play with dolls. This will open eyes. Great job!! :)

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  2. This was a very informative piece and the first thing that I would like to say is good job!!! I really agree with you on the perspective of allowing girls to cross "gender boundaries" It really leaves room for better thoughts. Although I never watched Star Wars as a child (or ever) I was known as a tomboy, so I can relate. I really enjoyed it.
    -B.D.

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  3. Great job Sam!! I really enjoyed this as a kid growing up I was a tomboy I grew up around a bunch of boys, so I can relate to this however I never watched star wars growing up. I totally agree that the separation between boys and girls watching or even liking star wars is crazy. Girls should be able to watch star wars just like boys. Again Great job Sam!!
    -Brianna

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  4. I so badly hope that one day more people (besides us Rebels) can read your writing. I've read more essays, stories, poems, books, etc. in my life so far than most folks ever will, and I will tell you for certain that you are a good writer. No matter is assignment, I'm impressed with your natural abilities to capture your voice in writing. Once again, you didn't disappoint in this clever and witty essay about gender roles, feminism and equality. I wish that little girl in Hobby Lobby could have a chance to sit down and read your essay.
    -Ms. Long

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  5. Sam,
    As a girl who loves Star Wars I could not agree more; not only because I love Star Wars, but because im a girl. I have no recommendations because you did very well and I could not have said it better myself! Good job!
    -Rose

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  6. Totally agree! I have been blessed with 2 daughters, though I must admit I know very little about raising girls. I really just think The Big Guy upstairs gave me girls just to watch me squirm, but I know that the "boy stuff" is the one way I can relate to them. I was very excited when Ryley wanted to get her picture made with Chewbacca and Darth Vader at Disney World, though I think that was mainly for me. I have a Yoda house robe at home, and I love to hear Parker call me Yoder. Star Wars should be a part of everyone's life, at least more so than that goofy Harry Potter......:)

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  7. Your ability to take such a small event, like the mom telling her little girl that Star Wars is for boys, and turn it into an amazing essay about gender roles is very impressive. It shows how observant and thoughtful you are, and those are very admirable qualities. Having 3 brothers and a dad who all love Star Wars (and of course all other "boy" things) had an effect on my life growing up. Unlike that mom in Hobby Lobby, my parents always encouraged me to do whatever I enjoyed. There was very little, “Karlee, that’s for boys.” Most of the time, I figured out what was considered boyish on my own. I still enjoy doing things considered "boyish" with my mainly male family, and I feel that if more people were as outspoken as you are, then there wouldn't be such a stigma on tomboyish girls.

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  8. Sam, I thought this was a phenomenally written essay with an even better message. It pains me to see the gender roles that are forced upon our society today, and you hit the nail on the head, it starts with children being told that something isn't gender neutral enough for both male and females alike to enjoy. That girls aren't supposed to play in the mud or belch yet boys have no guidelines for how they are to act as long as their interest are that of masculine persuasion. This essay should be published on every site accessible so that people can read the powerful truths you spoke and recognize the gargantuan flaw being made.

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  9. First of all, great essay. You're an amazing writer! Secondly, I've never seen Star Wars but as a girl who happens to have a very long lived obsession with Spiderman (I had a Spiderman bedspread in my pink bedroom and my fourth birthday was Spiderman themed) I can totally relate! Although my parents and family encouraged me to be myself in every sense of the phrase I was still very aware that it was supposedly for boys. Gender separation is the work of the devil and it should come to a screeching halt. It's 2016 and if your little girl happens to like star wars or your little boy names his kitten Elsa then so be it.

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  10. Sam, I am blown away by your writing skills. If you wrote a book series, I would read it, and that’s saying a lot because I hate reading. Anyways, your essay is amazing. It is a perfect piece with the perfect examples and the perfect style. I cringed at the thought of a mother denying her child something she asked for just because it was “only for boys”, in her opinion. I agree with every word you put into this essay. Certain interests shouldn’t be separated by gender! Everyone should have the privilege to like what they like and not be deprived of it because of gender roles. I admire you for writing on this subject because it is a very important issue in today’s society. Equality will always be a challenge for the world, especially gender roles, but I believe that people like you have the ability to make people listen. Thank you for sharing this, it was a pleasure to read.

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