Friday, July 6, 2018
Blog 2- Grace Anne
Okay so I’m gonna like post the rest of these as fast as possible so I can get them out of the way. I just wanted to rant for a second about something that has happened. So don’t read if you don’t want some truth. I understand that people grow and when they do they don’t always grow together. So not everyone you meet is gonna stay in your life, but do you ever meet certain people and think... it’s different they say there not gonna leave they’re here to stay? Someone you trust, you tell things to, you tell them stuff out loud that you never thought you’d say, and it’s comfortable cause you’re close.Then all of a sudden you catch yourself and realize you care way to much about what they think, and you over analyze everything. Yeah me too.. anyway I just wanted to take a second to tell you it’s not your fault. People leave sometimes for petty things and sometimes for no reason at all. However it’s not your job to make them stay. Trust me that just gives you stress, so if they wanna leave let them. If they out of the blue push you away, just go. You aren’t here to show anyone your worth, and if they can’t realize they are losing someone that’s on them. That’s also another problem when you have a big heart and care. People won’t care as deeply as you, but you have to see that and realize you’re taking your energy from yourself and giving to something you won’t get back. Also just keep in mind you won’t be losing anything, that person is losing someone who cared about them and would do anything for them. So keep this in mind when you’re around people cause one day they might get tired of being the strong one. Also this came to my mind sometimes when it’s convenient for them they’ll try to come back into your life. Don’t let them it’s not worth it, even if y’all have history of whatever it may be. So be as sad as you want but don’t let them back in just step away. Lesson learned from that... Anyway I’m done see you guys in the next one duces.- Grace Anne
You know Grace Anne, I really liked this blog. You talk about so much and I’m just like...mind blown. I can also see where you’re coming from this. I have let people in my life and I just become way to attached or I care about everything they think about me. It sucks to because I start doing things the way they think I should or acting out of character. I hate myself sometimes for doing that. Especially when that person just leaves your life and you don’t know what to do. Like you’ve spent so much time trying to keep them in your life and impress them, and once they are gone, you don’t know how to be you. I have learned my lesson on this so many times. It’s like as soon as you get back to the point where you actually start thinking about yourself and what you want in life, they try to come back. I’ve also made the mistake of allowing them back in and as you can guess history repeats. This is honestly one reason I like listening to your rants. You go on about more important things. I will be looking back at this wonderful rant and using it in my life.
ReplyDelete-Brittany Fulcher
girl i didnt even have to read all of this understand what you mean. (i mean i read it all but still yanno what i mean) we get so caught in making other happy and pleasing everyone don't make our selves happy. this is such a huge thing that people need to read. and i TOTALLY get the whole them losing you instead of you losing them because its their loss not yours. been there done that. you keep talking about the real stuff and stay strong girly!! and this time i will actually put my name on my comments bc i forget everytime.
ReplyDeletexoxo. carmen.