Monday, July 9, 2018

Blog # 9 Cut Out This Type Of Person - Brittany Fulcher

So, hey guys. I am just trying to knock out another blog today. Maybe two. I am so happy that this is my 9th blog. I enjoyed doing this, well kind of, but I am so ready to be done with them. For this blog, I am just gonna rant about something I thought of of, but y’all might not really care to read about but I do not care, it is my blog. The topic really bothers me so if I get a little crazy or somewhat off topic or anything along those lines, I apologize. I absolutely hate when someone is very excited about something in their life and someone ruins that excitement or judges them for being excited. Like leave them alone. If they want to jump up and down over a song, let them. If they want to yell like an idiot over the person they love, let them. If they have hopes and dreams, let them have them and keep dreaming. Let them love what they want to. Let them act like an idiot and be excited. Let them dream. I mean, it’s not hard to shut your mouth and be excited for the person, even if it is far fetched. Don’t shut down their dreams. That makes you a horrible and very unlikable person. Honestly, if you are gonna put someone down for liking something or idolizing something or having wild dreams, you don’t deserve to be in their life. If I want to scream about every One Direction moment and song, let me. If I want to cry because I own the deluxe edition of Harry Styles’ album, let me. Let me embrace what I love and the things important to me without your opinion. Because to be honest it doesn’t matter.  You should appreciate their excitement and support them. I would use more colorful words, but this is for school and I don’t think Ms. Long will appreciate it. So, I’ll use my tiny filter. For example, I told someone, not naming names, “I’m gonna save all the money I get and at least go see Harry for his second album. I’m gonna save enough and I’m gonna be right in the pit. I don’t care how broke it makes me.” And that person looked at me and said “Either way, you’re prolly gonna be so far back you are not gonna be able to see him, so why do it?” I was furious. I would express how mad I was, but I have to filter myself. It hurt to think that that person believed I could not do it. Heck, she put me down about seeing my number one idol. That hurt. Like, if you care about me, just nod. Like wha the heck. I was so upset after that because I began doubting myself and I should never have to do that because of someone else. Another example is that I told someone I was gonna get and job to save for a car. They doubt I’ll do it.  Like yeah, I’m not the richest person and my parents don’t spoil me with my every command, but if I work, I will do it myself. I’d rather do it myself and anyway. I’ve realized I don’t need people who shut down my excitement in my life. I will do both examples I used because they are both dreams I have and I’m willing to make them happen. I don’t need your negativity. This is probably way to long but I don’t care. This is something I feel strong about.

3 comments:

  1. I agree with you on the blogs.. they weren’t too bad. I also agree with you on the whole ruining other people’s excitement. Nobody likes seeing other people upset, so why would you need to ruin someone’s happiness? And like you said, we need to let everyone love who/what they love. We aren’t all going to love the same things/people so we shouldn’t put other people down when they find something they love. I can’t stand when people say negative things, especially when it’s to their friends. Like you’re not their true friend if you’re not going to encourage them. I think you should save for that concert, and if you don’t save enough in time, keep the money and go to the next one. - mcheese

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  2. Brittany, I absolutely agree with you. Others shouldn't judge those that get excited over things they think are important, even if it is simple and silly. Honestly, I'm probably one of those people. Heck, I was so excited when BTS came out with their new album that I was smiling and bouncing around all day, I'd probably bawl my eyes out in happiness if I even got to meet them in person, or see one of their concerts. I hate when others try to ruin someone else’s happiness, it's just plain cruel and disrespectful. Like you said, they should just leave that person alone and let them be happy and dream what they want, instead of trying to put them down
    ~Katie Towery

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  3. GIRL U GONNA BE RIGHT ON STAGE WITH HIM!! so will I too... this blog was sooo good to. I don’t understand why people gotta drag someone because they like something or have bigger dreams than that small headed person. It ticks me off too. Like even if you done like what someone thinks or think there dream they talk about won’t work. At least have the decency to be a good person and keep it to yourself. (Ain’t got nothing nice to say don’t say anything at all - kindergarten lesson) I think people are this way cause they’re either unhappy themselves or don’t want you to do better than them. Which sucks both ways, but the fact that other people don’t ant others to do the best they can sucks. However that’s just the world we live in. I freakin hope you get front row and send a picture to that person. I hope harry himself takes a selfie and send it to them. You do you boo. // -Grace Anne

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