Be nice. This is what you hear almost everyone say. It isn't always simple, it definitely takes work. In the past I didn't always live by this, but the past couple years I have really been trying to just be nice. Honestly it is totally worth it. Of course it is way easier to just be mean to someone then to just suck it up and be nice. I know from experience, and I think everyone does.
I can come up with so many situations in my life were I just decided to take the easy way out, and not think about others. Until one time I realized how bad it made the other person feel. I never really realized it before because it didn't mean anything to me. I started talking to the people I had hurt. I apologized so many times, but still to this day I feel so bad.
Ever since I realized that I was actually hurting others, I made a point to try and be nice to everyone even when it is hard. I have trouble sometimes, but I just think about the person I don't want to be. With all this being said trust me when I say be nice to everyone, you never know what that person is going through. Also you never know what kind of hurt you are causing them.
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